By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
While the world is focused on the Olympic Games and parents are focused on getting their kid back into school, many families are focusing on the Housing and Economic Recovery Act of 2008 and whether it might help them keep their homes. Real estate and lending professional are also scrambling to figure the thing out and are only getting it piece by piece.
That said, here are some new pieces to the already complicated puzzle. According to a number of reports, homeowners must meet the following criteria in order to have a chance of being helped by the new law: the loan must be on their primary residence, the loan must have been originated between January 2005 and June of 2007 and the payment must add up to 31% or more of the homeowners gross monthly income.
There are additional FHA requirements as well. For example: the borrower must pay an annual fee to FHA in the amount of 1.5% of the loan amount as an insurance premium. If the homeowner sells the property within on year of making the deal, FHA keeps 100% of the profits realized from the sale. If they sell after one year FHA gets 90%. The percentage keeps dropping in increments of 10% until it reaches a 50% split after five years. The bottom line is, the government may help you to keep your house, but it won’t be for free. You’re going to have to pay up sooner or later.
Just like the problems it’s trying to solve, this law is complicated. Real estate and lending professionals are learning more about it every day and so far, it looks like it may be helpful for some folks. But, it won’t help everyone. Many of the people who are currently in trouble with their mortgage or whose mortgage interest rate is soon going to adjust, will not be helped by this legislation. This is particularly true when the property in question is a rental or a second home. Another sticking point is that all of the fixes require the lenders to agree to take hefty losses. As a result, it’s not surprising that many prognosticators are predicting that short sales and foreclosures are going to continue for some time to come.
While it’s not a perfect fix, it is a fix and it will help many people. In fact, for the right people in the right situation this new “bail out” plan could be a dream come true. So, if you think it might help you or someone you know, the best place to start is with your lender or your Realtor. Just don’t forget that there are other available options in case this one doesn’t work for you.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Monday, August 04, 2008
What does the new housing bailout bill do?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
The recent signing of the Housing and Economic Recovery Act of 2008 by President Bush has a great many distressed homeowners clambering to find out how much help the new law might actually provide. Many of these folks are desperate to find some way to keep their homes and are hopeful that this new law might provide some new options to help them do it.
Like most laws passed these days, this new housing act makes changes in many areas. Among other thing; it raises the conforming loan limits, increases regulation of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, modernizes some FHA programs, creates some tax incentives, establishes new licensing requirements and gives birth to something the House of Representatives called the “Hope for Homeowners Program.”
During the run up to the signing of this bill, just about every news story that I saw focused more on the possible bailout for distressed homeowners than on any other part of the bill. This is precisely because the law provides an opportunity for some distressed homeowners to refinance their existing high interest rate loans into new, affordable FHA-insured loans based upon the current market value of their homes. That’s right… current market value. If the home was worth $600,000 when you purchased it and it’s only worth $400,000 now, the new loan would be based upon the $400,000 current value. It sounds like a miracle! Still, there are some limitations that you should know about.
While the program appears to be a good one, there are some hitches that borrowers should be aware of before they dive in. First of all, this program is not available to everyone. In order to be eligible, borrowers must have taken out their current loan on or before January 1, 2008. They must also certify that they did not intentionally default on their original mortgage or any other debts as well as declare that they did not provide false information in order to obtain the loan. If the borrower has been convicted of fraud or has previously defaulted on a government loan that borrower is not eligible. The borrower must also meet other standards established by the program’s governing board, including documenting income by use of the borrower’s two most recent tax returns. But, the biggest obstacles for the homeowner to overcome are these: the borrower’s current lender has to agree to take the loss and the borrower has to agree to share any future equity they may gain the home with the government on a 50/50 split. Like my grandfather used to say, “There’s no such thing as a free lunch.”
Still, if you’re trying to save your home, this new law and the program it provides may just be the ticket. But, be careful, get lots of advice and remember that this is new to those in the real estate industry too, and it may take a while before we “experts” have a full grasp of all the possibilities.
YourRealEstateDude.com
The recent signing of the Housing and Economic Recovery Act of 2008 by President Bush has a great many distressed homeowners clambering to find out how much help the new law might actually provide. Many of these folks are desperate to find some way to keep their homes and are hopeful that this new law might provide some new options to help them do it.
Like most laws passed these days, this new housing act makes changes in many areas. Among other thing; it raises the conforming loan limits, increases regulation of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, modernizes some FHA programs, creates some tax incentives, establishes new licensing requirements and gives birth to something the House of Representatives called the “Hope for Homeowners Program.”
During the run up to the signing of this bill, just about every news story that I saw focused more on the possible bailout for distressed homeowners than on any other part of the bill. This is precisely because the law provides an opportunity for some distressed homeowners to refinance their existing high interest rate loans into new, affordable FHA-insured loans based upon the current market value of their homes. That’s right… current market value. If the home was worth $600,000 when you purchased it and it’s only worth $400,000 now, the new loan would be based upon the $400,000 current value. It sounds like a miracle! Still, there are some limitations that you should know about.
While the program appears to be a good one, there are some hitches that borrowers should be aware of before they dive in. First of all, this program is not available to everyone. In order to be eligible, borrowers must have taken out their current loan on or before January 1, 2008. They must also certify that they did not intentionally default on their original mortgage or any other debts as well as declare that they did not provide false information in order to obtain the loan. If the borrower has been convicted of fraud or has previously defaulted on a government loan that borrower is not eligible. The borrower must also meet other standards established by the program’s governing board, including documenting income by use of the borrower’s two most recent tax returns. But, the biggest obstacles for the homeowner to overcome are these: the borrower’s current lender has to agree to take the loss and the borrower has to agree to share any future equity they may gain the home with the government on a 50/50 split. Like my grandfather used to say, “There’s no such thing as a free lunch.”
Still, if you’re trying to save your home, this new law and the program it provides may just be the ticket. But, be careful, get lots of advice and remember that this is new to those in the real estate industry too, and it may take a while before we “experts” have a full grasp of all the possibilities.
A Good Alternative to Foreclosure
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstatetDude.com
With all the talk of increasing foreclosures, and fears of banking failures such as that which occurred with Indymac Bank and the worries surrounding the general stability of the lending market, more and more people I meet are asking probing questions about possible alternatives to foreclosure. One such alternative is the “Short Sale.”
Short sales were last used extensively during the market down-turn of the 1990s. A short sale occurs when property values have declined to the point that homeowners owe more on their properties than the properties themselves are worth. When that happens and a homeowner can no longer make the required payments, the two most common results are foreclosure or selling the home for less than what is owed on it with the permission of the lender. The latter is called a short sale.
If you are keeping your eye on the market in San Diego, you have probably noticed that a significant percentage of the homes currently for sale in the county are distress sales. Many are foreclosures, but a large number are short sales. This may be due to the fact that a short sale can do far less damage to your credit rating than simply going through a foreclosure.
According to an article published on the CBS News website in June of 2007,
“While in both cases, short sale and foreclosure, the delinquent mortgage will negatively affect (the seller’s) credit rating, at least short sellers avoid having a “debt discharged due to foreclosure” on their credit reports. Mortgage and credit experts say that, after bankruptcy, having a foreclosure on your credit report is the worst result and will reduce your credit score by over 250 points. You could also have to wait up to three years to qualify for a mortgage at a reasonable rate.
The article goes on to state that a short sale will generally be report as, “a pre-foreclosure in redemption… and can result in a credit score reduction of 100 points or less.” According to CBS News, “People who successfully complete a short sale may also qualify for a mortgage at a reasonable interest rate in as little as 18 months.”
Given the current market and the large number of distressed sellers in San Diego County, many real estate offices, including my own, have focused on helping sellers in financial distress complete short sales. This is simply because a short sale is often a far better alternative than a foreclosure. So, if you or someone you know is in financial distress and facing foreclosure, a short sale may be a better way to go. A qualified, experienced real estate professional should be able to help.
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With all the talk of increasing foreclosures, and fears of banking failures such as that which occurred with Indymac Bank and the worries surrounding the general stability of the lending market, more and more people I meet are asking probing questions about possible alternatives to foreclosure. One such alternative is the “Short Sale.”
Short sales were last used extensively during the market down-turn of the 1990s. A short sale occurs when property values have declined to the point that homeowners owe more on their properties than the properties themselves are worth. When that happens and a homeowner can no longer make the required payments, the two most common results are foreclosure or selling the home for less than what is owed on it with the permission of the lender. The latter is called a short sale.
If you are keeping your eye on the market in San Diego, you have probably noticed that a significant percentage of the homes currently for sale in the county are distress sales. Many are foreclosures, but a large number are short sales. This may be due to the fact that a short sale can do far less damage to your credit rating than simply going through a foreclosure.
According to an article published on the CBS News website in June of 2007,
“While in both cases, short sale and foreclosure, the delinquent mortgage will negatively affect (the seller’s) credit rating, at least short sellers avoid having a “debt discharged due to foreclosure” on their credit reports. Mortgage and credit experts say that, after bankruptcy, having a foreclosure on your credit report is the worst result and will reduce your credit score by over 250 points. You could also have to wait up to three years to qualify for a mortgage at a reasonable rate.
The article goes on to state that a short sale will generally be report as, “a pre-foreclosure in redemption… and can result in a credit score reduction of 100 points or less.” According to CBS News, “People who successfully complete a short sale may also qualify for a mortgage at a reasonable interest rate in as little as 18 months.”
Given the current market and the large number of distressed sellers in San Diego County, many real estate offices, including my own, have focused on helping sellers in financial distress complete short sales. This is simply because a short sale is often a far better alternative than a foreclosure. So, if you or someone you know is in financial distress and facing foreclosure, a short sale may be a better way to go. A qualified, experienced real estate professional should be able to help.
Can Congress Fix The Problems With The Housing Market?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
Everywhere I go these days people ask me what I think will happen if Congress passes all the “Fixes” and “Reforms” it is promising in order to “help struggling homeowners” in the current housing crunch. Since so many folks have asked, I thought it might be nice for me to give the question some consideration.
So far, Congress has proposed relief for struggling home owners, a tightening of regulations for mortgage lenders, punishing the lending industry in one form or another, making it more difficult for high risk borrowers to get loans in the first place, saving Freddie & Fannie as was done a week or so ago and so on, and so on. Among the most recent proposals is a plan to bail out those homeowners who can’t pay their mortgages. Of course, nobody seems eager to mention that the money to bail these folks out must come from somewhere. So, who do you think is going to pay for it? It’s not a trick question. The answer is, you. The tax payer is going to pony up the coin for any such deal that becomes law.
I’ve been sitting back quietly watching those in government wrestle with the problems of the housing and lending market for a while now and since I have been asked so often lately about my thoughts on the issue, I have come to three inescapable conclusions:
- While it could be debated whether the government had any part in getting the housing market into its current troubles, it appears to be an absolute certainty that no-one in the government has the vaguest idea how to fix them.
- The old political axiom, “When in doubt, grand stand” has never gone out of style. Only in politics can so many supposedly grown men and women madly scurry around in a frantic attempt to look good while actually knowing and accomplishing nothing and still manage to get paid for it.
- The use of smoke and mirrors is not exclusive to flashy Las Vegas magicians. Government types know that if they keep the public off balance by proposing useless “Fixes” long enough, the market will eventually correct itself. The sad truth is that nobody in government is actually trying to fix anything. They’re just trying to rack up the highest number of “Fixes” so they can take credit for fixing it when it finally gets around to fixing itself. Never in my 50 years of life have I ever seen government actually attempt to fix anything without making things much worse in the process.
So, what are we left with? First, government is not going to fix this. It will fix itself if we just let it. Second, if government actually tries to fix it, it will get worse. Third, the market is supposed to do what it is doing. It spiked upward and needed to correct downward. So, it went down and it will continue to do so until it is done correcting for the spike. Like the old saying goes, “What goes up must come down.” And lastly, there is no painless way out of this. Uncle Sam is not really our long, lost, rich Uncle and he can’t bail us out every time we blow it. Some times we just have to fend for ourselves.
Do you own your house or does it own you?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
When I was a kid my mother used to caution me not to put more food on my plate than I could eat. If I didn’t listen and ended up sitting at the table, stuffed to the gills and unable to finish my supper, she would look at me with a disapproving scowl and remark, “Your eyes are too big for your stomach, young man.” These were words I heard many times growing up and they taught me more than the obvious lesson they were meant to teach. Among other things, I learned that gluttony and bad consequences go hand-in-hand.
In today’s American society, many of us have failed to learn that our eyes are often bigger than our stomachs, or in many cases, our bank accounts. Even if we did learn it as kids, every aspect of our culture rails against that lesson and entices us to have more and bigger regardless of the consequences. As Brian Buffini (a popular business coach) is fond of putting it, we are driven to “…spend money we don’t have buying things we don’t need to impress people we don’t even know.”
Just yesterday I had the opportunity to talk to an old friend at church. He was brimming with excitement as he announced to me that he and his wife had finally purchased a home. I have seldom seen him so excited. He told me all about the house itself, how excited he and his family were and then finally, about the deal. To his credit, he had really done his homework. He had established a family budget, investigated the current real estate market, determined exactly what his family could afford, and then and only then gone shopping for a home. As a result, he made a fabulous purchase. His new home is just what they need as a family, exactly what they can afford and best of all, they own it. It doesn’t own them. Many other folks cannot say the same.
As I write this column, Realtors, attorneys and credit experts all around the country are working to help thousands and thousands of families who are upside-down on their homes. How did so many people end up in such a mess? I submit that it is a result of never having learned the simple lesson my mother used to preach, “Only take what you can eat, Son. Remember, your eyes are often bigger than your stomach.”
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When I was a kid my mother used to caution me not to put more food on my plate than I could eat. If I didn’t listen and ended up sitting at the table, stuffed to the gills and unable to finish my supper, she would look at me with a disapproving scowl and remark, “Your eyes are too big for your stomach, young man.” These were words I heard many times growing up and they taught me more than the obvious lesson they were meant to teach. Among other things, I learned that gluttony and bad consequences go hand-in-hand.
In today’s American society, many of us have failed to learn that our eyes are often bigger than our stomachs, or in many cases, our bank accounts. Even if we did learn it as kids, every aspect of our culture rails against that lesson and entices us to have more and bigger regardless of the consequences. As Brian Buffini (a popular business coach) is fond of putting it, we are driven to “…spend money we don’t have buying things we don’t need to impress people we don’t even know.”
Just yesterday I had the opportunity to talk to an old friend at church. He was brimming with excitement as he announced to me that he and his wife had finally purchased a home. I have seldom seen him so excited. He told me all about the house itself, how excited he and his family were and then finally, about the deal. To his credit, he had really done his homework. He had established a family budget, investigated the current real estate market, determined exactly what his family could afford, and then and only then gone shopping for a home. As a result, he made a fabulous purchase. His new home is just what they need as a family, exactly what they can afford and best of all, they own it. It doesn’t own them. Many other folks cannot say the same.
As I write this column, Realtors, attorneys and credit experts all around the country are working to help thousands and thousands of families who are upside-down on their homes. How did so many people end up in such a mess? I submit that it is a result of never having learned the simple lesson my mother used to preach, “Only take what you can eat, Son. Remember, your eyes are often bigger than your stomach.”
Monday, June 23, 2008
Is the market picking up?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
It seems that the burning question on everyone’s lips this past week has been, “Is the market picking up?” I don’t know if you have been asking that question, but it certainly has been asked of me at least once per day for the last week or so. As a consequence, I started asking other people and here is what I heard.
An agent I spoke to who works at another office told me that he was thrilled that his clients had the opportunity to buy homes at lower prices. But, he was finding that the prices were being “bid up” because every property that his clients expressed an interest in had received multiple offers. Consequently, by the time the properties sold, the discount was gone.
Even non-agents reported similar opinions regarding the current market’s trend. When I stopped by the office and spoke to our Transaction Coordinator, she seemed genuinely excited to report that things were picking up and the number of escrows being closed seemed to be increasing. One fellow at church began telling me that his offers on short sales were not moving foreword as rapidly as he would have liked. So, he and his wife began looking at bank owned properties only to find that a bidding war was underway at any they seemed to find interesting.
Obviously, my poll was not conducted in any scientific way and certainly the sample of people polled was tiny by any measure. Just the same, I found it fascinating that everyone I asked expressed an optimism regarding the real estate market that I have not heard for quite some time. Buyers seemed to feel that the time to buy had arrived and agents expressed a guarded optimism associated with the fact that they actually had clients to work with and properties for their buyers to buy.
All that having been said, available statistics do not appear to agree with the optimism expressed by my sampling. I wouldn’t let that dampen the prospects though. The available statistics are forever and always several months old. Therefore, what is really happening in the marketplace happens before anyone can conclusively prove that it is actually happening. That’s why we have talking heads on the news and guys like me who write columns like this one.
The bottom line is this. No one knows definitively if the market is picking up. But, it sure seems like it and we can all hope that what appears to be happening really is.
YourRealEstateDude.com
It seems that the burning question on everyone’s lips this past week has been, “Is the market picking up?” I don’t know if you have been asking that question, but it certainly has been asked of me at least once per day for the last week or so. As a consequence, I started asking other people and here is what I heard.
An agent I spoke to who works at another office told me that he was thrilled that his clients had the opportunity to buy homes at lower prices. But, he was finding that the prices were being “bid up” because every property that his clients expressed an interest in had received multiple offers. Consequently, by the time the properties sold, the discount was gone.
Even non-agents reported similar opinions regarding the current market’s trend. When I stopped by the office and spoke to our Transaction Coordinator, she seemed genuinely excited to report that things were picking up and the number of escrows being closed seemed to be increasing. One fellow at church began telling me that his offers on short sales were not moving foreword as rapidly as he would have liked. So, he and his wife began looking at bank owned properties only to find that a bidding war was underway at any they seemed to find interesting.
Obviously, my poll was not conducted in any scientific way and certainly the sample of people polled was tiny by any measure. Just the same, I found it fascinating that everyone I asked expressed an optimism regarding the real estate market that I have not heard for quite some time. Buyers seemed to feel that the time to buy had arrived and agents expressed a guarded optimism associated with the fact that they actually had clients to work with and properties for their buyers to buy.
All that having been said, available statistics do not appear to agree with the optimism expressed by my sampling. I wouldn’t let that dampen the prospects though. The available statistics are forever and always several months old. Therefore, what is really happening in the marketplace happens before anyone can conclusively prove that it is actually happening. That’s why we have talking heads on the news and guys like me who write columns like this one.
The bottom line is this. No one knows definitively if the market is picking up. But, it sure seems like it and we can all hope that what appears to be happening really is.
Checking Credentials Can Keep You Out of Trouble.
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
Having eaten in parts of the world where the origin of the food and the cleanliness with which it was prepared were questionable at best, I have gotten into the habit of looking for the big blue and white health department placard whenever I stop at a restaurant to eat. If that placard has anything but an “A” on it, I’m out of there! Something tells me that if you looked up and saw a “C”, you’d be gone too.
Checking credentials, whether you’re looking for that “A” at your favorite eatery or checking the licensing history of a prospective Realtor, is one step you can take to avoid giving yourself and your wallet a bellyache.
Just last week one of my agents asked me to attend a meeting with an agent from another office who had expressed a desire to work with us in our efforts to help people who are financially upside down on their mortgage payments. It was the first time any of us had ever met the agent in question or visited his office and the meeting did not go quite as planned. The agent was pleasant enough, but there was just something about the gentleman that didn’t seem right.
As we walked through the parking lot after the meeting my agents and I went over our concerns. None of us could quite put a finger on what was wrong, but one said, “I just don’t trust that guy.” Later that afternoon I received an email from one of my agents who had attended the meeting. She had followed up on the concerns and checked the fellow’s licensing history. As it turns out, his license had previously been revoked! In the strongest words possible, she suggested that we decline to work with that agent and that brokerage. The emails that followed made me very proud of my agents. It was unanimous. We would not work with that agent or that office.
But, what if we had? What if my agent hadn’t checked the licensing? What if we hadn’t followed up on our concerns when the little voices in our heads were telling us that something wasn’t right? We could have started to work with a potentially unethical or even criminal real estate agent. Worse yet, what if one of our clients was hurt as a result?
This may sound like fear-mongering to you, but let’s be honest, there are bad people out there. Fortunately, for every dishonest real estate person there are thousands of good, honest agents who care about their clients. The trick is making sure you end up with one of them and not with the bad guy. One step you should include in your vetting of Realtors is to check their licensing by visiting www.dre.cahwnet.gov. It’s not a foolproof way of weeding out the stinkers, but it sure helps.
YourRealEstateDude.com
Having eaten in parts of the world where the origin of the food and the cleanliness with which it was prepared were questionable at best, I have gotten into the habit of looking for the big blue and white health department placard whenever I stop at a restaurant to eat. If that placard has anything but an “A” on it, I’m out of there! Something tells me that if you looked up and saw a “C”, you’d be gone too.
Checking credentials, whether you’re looking for that “A” at your favorite eatery or checking the licensing history of a prospective Realtor, is one step you can take to avoid giving yourself and your wallet a bellyache.
Just last week one of my agents asked me to attend a meeting with an agent from another office who had expressed a desire to work with us in our efforts to help people who are financially upside down on their mortgage payments. It was the first time any of us had ever met the agent in question or visited his office and the meeting did not go quite as planned. The agent was pleasant enough, but there was just something about the gentleman that didn’t seem right.
As we walked through the parking lot after the meeting my agents and I went over our concerns. None of us could quite put a finger on what was wrong, but one said, “I just don’t trust that guy.” Later that afternoon I received an email from one of my agents who had attended the meeting. She had followed up on the concerns and checked the fellow’s licensing history. As it turns out, his license had previously been revoked! In the strongest words possible, she suggested that we decline to work with that agent and that brokerage. The emails that followed made me very proud of my agents. It was unanimous. We would not work with that agent or that office.
But, what if we had? What if my agent hadn’t checked the licensing? What if we hadn’t followed up on our concerns when the little voices in our heads were telling us that something wasn’t right? We could have started to work with a potentially unethical or even criminal real estate agent. Worse yet, what if one of our clients was hurt as a result?
This may sound like fear-mongering to you, but let’s be honest, there are bad people out there. Fortunately, for every dishonest real estate person there are thousands of good, honest agents who care about their clients. The trick is making sure you end up with one of them and not with the bad guy. One step you should include in your vetting of Realtors is to check their licensing by visiting www.dre.cahwnet.gov. It’s not a foolproof way of weeding out the stinkers, but it sure helps.
The Real Estate Game is a Team Sport
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
There is something about human nature which drives many of us to be independent. As a result, the spirit of the “do it yourselfer” is strong in each of us. I ought to know. I spent half of this past weekend working on our house and the other half working on our car. But, while this spirit of independence can be a good thing, it can also hold us back when we apply it to a process that is as complex as buying, selling or investing in real estate. Over the years I have seen many example of this, but one fellow whom I met recently brings the whole idea of independence gone wrong into sharp focus.
This fellow had decided to get into the real estate market when things were booming. So, he went to a seminar, learned enough to be dangerous and proceeded to purchase all or part of thirty homes over the following year. He rented out all thirty of the properties and both he and his wife thought they were on the road to riches. Along the way they told many of their friends about their new found success and enticed several of them to follow in their footsteps. They, in turn told others and so it went until some dozen or so families had joined in the game without any idea of how to play it. By the time I met this gentleman he had lost all thirty properties as well as his family home and the other dozen or so families who had followed his example had lost everything as well.
The list of mistakes he made was lengthy to be sure. Here is a short list: None of the properties had a positive cash flow, the tax dodge he tried to use didn’t work, the “trust” in which he placed the properties did not accomplish its intended goal, the properties were purchased at full market value, he used all of the equity from his personal residence to fund his enterprise, the loan structures he used were extremely risky, etc, etc. In short, his entire approach was a ticking time bomb waiting to go off. At no time did he consult an attorney, CPA, real estate broker or anyone else.
Real estate is no place for the “do it yourselfer.” My grandfather was one of the most successful people I have ever known and his favorite saying was, “You don’t have to be smart, just hang around smart people.” He surrounded himself with those whom he knew would look after his best interest and had the knowledge and expertise with which to do so. So, if you are going to play in real estate you will need a good lawyer, CPA and real estate broker at a minimum. You will also need a deep understanding and acceptance of the fact that the real estate game is a team sport.
YourRealEstateDude.com
There is something about human nature which drives many of us to be independent. As a result, the spirit of the “do it yourselfer” is strong in each of us. I ought to know. I spent half of this past weekend working on our house and the other half working on our car. But, while this spirit of independence can be a good thing, it can also hold us back when we apply it to a process that is as complex as buying, selling or investing in real estate. Over the years I have seen many example of this, but one fellow whom I met recently brings the whole idea of independence gone wrong into sharp focus.
This fellow had decided to get into the real estate market when things were booming. So, he went to a seminar, learned enough to be dangerous and proceeded to purchase all or part of thirty homes over the following year. He rented out all thirty of the properties and both he and his wife thought they were on the road to riches. Along the way they told many of their friends about their new found success and enticed several of them to follow in their footsteps. They, in turn told others and so it went until some dozen or so families had joined in the game without any idea of how to play it. By the time I met this gentleman he had lost all thirty properties as well as his family home and the other dozen or so families who had followed his example had lost everything as well.
The list of mistakes he made was lengthy to be sure. Here is a short list: None of the properties had a positive cash flow, the tax dodge he tried to use didn’t work, the “trust” in which he placed the properties did not accomplish its intended goal, the properties were purchased at full market value, he used all of the equity from his personal residence to fund his enterprise, the loan structures he used were extremely risky, etc, etc. In short, his entire approach was a ticking time bomb waiting to go off. At no time did he consult an attorney, CPA, real estate broker or anyone else.
Real estate is no place for the “do it yourselfer.” My grandfather was one of the most successful people I have ever known and his favorite saying was, “You don’t have to be smart, just hang around smart people.” He surrounded himself with those whom he knew would look after his best interest and had the knowledge and expertise with which to do so. So, if you are going to play in real estate you will need a good lawyer, CPA and real estate broker at a minimum. You will also need a deep understanding and acceptance of the fact that the real estate game is a team sport.
Patience is Your Best Tool in a Real Estate Transaction
By Joel Persinger
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The one trait which causes more trouble in a real estate transaction than any other human trait is that of impatience. Over the years I have seen many clients, both buyers and sellers, shoot themselves in the feet simply because they could not be patient. Some unforeseen little thing causes escrow to be late in closing and the next thing you know the buyer or the seller gets his knickers in a knot and the entire transaction, on which everyone has worked tirelessly for weeks or even months, starts to fall apart.
Pitching a fit over little things is a common practice among real estate buyers and sellers. In fact, this type of childish behavior is one of the greatest contributors to the failure of real estate professionals to communicate properly with their clients. Most of us don’t like being yelled at. If we know that a client is prone to throwing fits, we naturally tend to avoid sharing bad or even potentially bad news with that client. Of course, this only postpones the inevitable. The news eventually must be shared and the resulting explosion of attitude on the part of the client often has the effect of killing an otherwise healthy transaction.
To make matters worse, some real estate agents are just as guilty of losing their patience. In the almost twenty years since I began my practice of real estate I have seen more real estate “professionals” throw the equivalent of kicking and screaming fits then my wife has seen among children in her almost twenty years as an elementary school teacher. Some agents have actually adopted, “I’m going to scream and yell and throw an obnoxious fit” as their main style of negotiating. This approach is both unprofessional and unproductive.
In today’s market, which is flooded with foreclosure and pre-foreclosure properties, impatience can be even more deadly to a real estate deal than ever before. Because a great many of the properties currently being sold require the approval of the lender involved, buyers are being forced to deal with large institutional bureaucracies rather than with individual sellers. Negotiating with the loss mitigation department of a national or international banking firm can be somewhat like trying to get a quick, favorable and accurate response from your least favorite branch of the government. Such negotiations require herculean efforts, flexibility, a multitude or repeated attempts and yes, plenty of patience.
When a client understands the ups and downs of the process and can exercise patience the transaction goes much more smoothly and the chances of successfully closing escrow are greatly increased. This is in no small part due to the fact that the Realtor is then able to focus on getting the job done rather than acting as arbiter, counselor, psychologist and whipping post while trying at the same time to negotiate a favorable outcome. So remember, patience is not only a virtue it is also the best tool you can employ to increase your chances of success in a real estate transaction. When challenges arise, as they most certainly will, take a deep breath, count to ten, think about what I’ve written here and be patient.
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The one trait which causes more trouble in a real estate transaction than any other human trait is that of impatience. Over the years I have seen many clients, both buyers and sellers, shoot themselves in the feet simply because they could not be patient. Some unforeseen little thing causes escrow to be late in closing and the next thing you know the buyer or the seller gets his knickers in a knot and the entire transaction, on which everyone has worked tirelessly for weeks or even months, starts to fall apart.
Pitching a fit over little things is a common practice among real estate buyers and sellers. In fact, this type of childish behavior is one of the greatest contributors to the failure of real estate professionals to communicate properly with their clients. Most of us don’t like being yelled at. If we know that a client is prone to throwing fits, we naturally tend to avoid sharing bad or even potentially bad news with that client. Of course, this only postpones the inevitable. The news eventually must be shared and the resulting explosion of attitude on the part of the client often has the effect of killing an otherwise healthy transaction.
To make matters worse, some real estate agents are just as guilty of losing their patience. In the almost twenty years since I began my practice of real estate I have seen more real estate “professionals” throw the equivalent of kicking and screaming fits then my wife has seen among children in her almost twenty years as an elementary school teacher. Some agents have actually adopted, “I’m going to scream and yell and throw an obnoxious fit” as their main style of negotiating. This approach is both unprofessional and unproductive.
In today’s market, which is flooded with foreclosure and pre-foreclosure properties, impatience can be even more deadly to a real estate deal than ever before. Because a great many of the properties currently being sold require the approval of the lender involved, buyers are being forced to deal with large institutional bureaucracies rather than with individual sellers. Negotiating with the loss mitigation department of a national or international banking firm can be somewhat like trying to get a quick, favorable and accurate response from your least favorite branch of the government. Such negotiations require herculean efforts, flexibility, a multitude or repeated attempts and yes, plenty of patience.
When a client understands the ups and downs of the process and can exercise patience the transaction goes much more smoothly and the chances of successfully closing escrow are greatly increased. This is in no small part due to the fact that the Realtor is then able to focus on getting the job done rather than acting as arbiter, counselor, psychologist and whipping post while trying at the same time to negotiate a favorable outcome. So remember, patience is not only a virtue it is also the best tool you can employ to increase your chances of success in a real estate transaction. When challenges arise, as they most certainly will, take a deep breath, count to ten, think about what I’ve written here and be patient.
Monday, May 26, 2008
The Reality of Buying Bank Owned Properties
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
When I started in the real estate business, I worked with a guy who was often quoted as saying, “People are funny” before continuing on to describe what particular act of “people” had prompted him to express dismay at their actions once again. Almost twenty years later, I have come to realize that he was right all along. About some things, “people are funny.”
Take buying foreclosed upon properties for example. With the market having changed significantly, foreclosures have now become REOs (Real Estate Owned). For reasons which I do not have space to explain here, banks sell REOs directly through real estate agents rather than through the more traditional real estate auction. Most people call them, “Bank owned properties.”
What causes me to lament that, “People are funny” is the unbelievable fact that buyers expect these properties to be both cheep and in top notch shape. Such expectations are unreasonable and, frankly, unrealistic. When homeowners can no longer make their payments and find themselves facing foreclosure, it is quite common for them to stay in the home as long as possible without making a payment. Along the way, they often strip the house of anything valuable. Even if they are generous enough not to trash the place, they certainly do not maintain it. Thus, at a minimum the home has been lived in for six months to a year without any maintenance or care before the lender manages to foreclose. By the time the bank actually gets the property, it is generally in serious need of attention.
We all seem to understand that homeowners don’t want to throw good money after bad by taking care of a house that the bank is going to foreclose upon, but we forget that the banks have lost money on these homes as well and are not particularly keen to dump more money into them. Consequently, banks often put these properties on the market just as they are. Some are just dirty. Others will require considerable work to get them into a livable condition. Either way, the vast majority will NOT look like model homes when you see them.
So, what’s a buyer to do when he wants a deal? As my son would say, “Get real.” Remember that you get what you pay for. If you buy a house cheep, you will probably have to put some work and money into the property. Therefore, it is of vital importance that you have someone knowledgeable about home repair and rehabilitation to help you. You also must have the money set aside with which to get the job done. If you are fortunate enough to find a bank owned property in great shape, don’t expect to get a deal. Everyone else is going to want that one too. You will probably have to pay more if you want to have a prayer of buying it.
YourRealEstateDude.com
When I started in the real estate business, I worked with a guy who was often quoted as saying, “People are funny” before continuing on to describe what particular act of “people” had prompted him to express dismay at their actions once again. Almost twenty years later, I have come to realize that he was right all along. About some things, “people are funny.”
Take buying foreclosed upon properties for example. With the market having changed significantly, foreclosures have now become REOs (Real Estate Owned). For reasons which I do not have space to explain here, banks sell REOs directly through real estate agents rather than through the more traditional real estate auction. Most people call them, “Bank owned properties.”
What causes me to lament that, “People are funny” is the unbelievable fact that buyers expect these properties to be both cheep and in top notch shape. Such expectations are unreasonable and, frankly, unrealistic. When homeowners can no longer make their payments and find themselves facing foreclosure, it is quite common for them to stay in the home as long as possible without making a payment. Along the way, they often strip the house of anything valuable. Even if they are generous enough not to trash the place, they certainly do not maintain it. Thus, at a minimum the home has been lived in for six months to a year without any maintenance or care before the lender manages to foreclose. By the time the bank actually gets the property, it is generally in serious need of attention.
We all seem to understand that homeowners don’t want to throw good money after bad by taking care of a house that the bank is going to foreclose upon, but we forget that the banks have lost money on these homes as well and are not particularly keen to dump more money into them. Consequently, banks often put these properties on the market just as they are. Some are just dirty. Others will require considerable work to get them into a livable condition. Either way, the vast majority will NOT look like model homes when you see them.
So, what’s a buyer to do when he wants a deal? As my son would say, “Get real.” Remember that you get what you pay for. If you buy a house cheep, you will probably have to put some work and money into the property. Therefore, it is of vital importance that you have someone knowledgeable about home repair and rehabilitation to help you. You also must have the money set aside with which to get the job done. If you are fortunate enough to find a bank owned property in great shape, don’t expect to get a deal. Everyone else is going to want that one too. You will probably have to pay more if you want to have a prayer of buying it.
Monday, May 12, 2008
Choosing the Right Advisers
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
There is an old proverb that says, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” This little bit of wisdom, penned by King Solomon, is quite invaluable. However, problems can arise when we choose the wrong advisers or forget that Solomon wrote “many”, and instead seek advice about everything from only one person.
Not long ago I attended a meeting with some clients who were being served by one of the Realtors in my office. These folks were having some financial difficulties and needed to sell their home for less than what they owed on it. The process is called a, “Short Sale.” We are working on a great many short sales and have developed an expertise in that area. This is precisely why the clients in question had been referred to us.
During our meeting, it became apparent that these folks had done little homework regarding their situation. While we are experts in the field of real estate, we are not experts in the law or regarding taxes. So, my agent and I strongly urged these nice people to speak to an attorney regarding other possible options and an accountant to determine to what degree there would be any tax liability associated with their short sale. They agreed and promptly made appointments with both an attorney and a CPA.
Following their meeting with their attorney they called my agent to tell him of their decision to move forward with the sale. He asked if they had consulted with a tax professional. They replied that they had not, but that they had an appointment with one coming up in a day or so. A few days later my agent followed up. The clients informed him that they would indeed have some tax consequences, but that they were prepared for them. The real problem, they said, was that the CPA had told them that short sales don’t work and that the lender probably won’t accept a short sale anyway. Not surprisingly, we later learned that the CPA had never been involved in a short sale.
So, let’s look at the concept of “many advisers.” It goes back thousands of years to a time when an ancient King ruled a powerful kingdom. Just as with our President today this King, named Solomon, surrounded himself with advisers. Some advised him regarding domestic issues and others on matters of war and relationships with other nations. I’m sure you will agree that he probably didn’t ask his generals how to address the problem of traffic congestion within his cities or defer to his domestic advisers on matters of war. Neither should we ask a CPA for advice regarding the practice of real estate nor a real estate broker to counsel us regarding our taxes.
Each professional has the potential to provide valuable insight upon which you can base well informed decisions, provided they each understand their limitations and confine their advice to what they really know. When they step outside of those boundaries, you may wish to reevaluate your choice of advisers.
YourRealEstateDude.com
There is an old proverb that says, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” This little bit of wisdom, penned by King Solomon, is quite invaluable. However, problems can arise when we choose the wrong advisers or forget that Solomon wrote “many”, and instead seek advice about everything from only one person.
Not long ago I attended a meeting with some clients who were being served by one of the Realtors in my office. These folks were having some financial difficulties and needed to sell their home for less than what they owed on it. The process is called a, “Short Sale.” We are working on a great many short sales and have developed an expertise in that area. This is precisely why the clients in question had been referred to us.
During our meeting, it became apparent that these folks had done little homework regarding their situation. While we are experts in the field of real estate, we are not experts in the law or regarding taxes. So, my agent and I strongly urged these nice people to speak to an attorney regarding other possible options and an accountant to determine to what degree there would be any tax liability associated with their short sale. They agreed and promptly made appointments with both an attorney and a CPA.
Following their meeting with their attorney they called my agent to tell him of their decision to move forward with the sale. He asked if they had consulted with a tax professional. They replied that they had not, but that they had an appointment with one coming up in a day or so. A few days later my agent followed up. The clients informed him that they would indeed have some tax consequences, but that they were prepared for them. The real problem, they said, was that the CPA had told them that short sales don’t work and that the lender probably won’t accept a short sale anyway. Not surprisingly, we later learned that the CPA had never been involved in a short sale.
So, let’s look at the concept of “many advisers.” It goes back thousands of years to a time when an ancient King ruled a powerful kingdom. Just as with our President today this King, named Solomon, surrounded himself with advisers. Some advised him regarding domestic issues and others on matters of war and relationships with other nations. I’m sure you will agree that he probably didn’t ask his generals how to address the problem of traffic congestion within his cities or defer to his domestic advisers on matters of war. Neither should we ask a CPA for advice regarding the practice of real estate nor a real estate broker to counsel us regarding our taxes.
Each professional has the potential to provide valuable insight upon which you can base well informed decisions, provided they each understand their limitations and confine their advice to what they really know. When they step outside of those boundaries, you may wish to reevaluate your choice of advisers.
Buying a Bank Owned Property
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
Now that home prices have been down for a while, many are the folks who call my office asking about the possibility of purchasing foreclosures. It seems that some seminar gurus have been making the rounds again and people are starting to get excited about investing in real estate.
That’s all fine and good except that buying foreclosures in today’s market is a bit different from what it might have been a decade ago. Today, many, if not most foreclosed upon properties are NOT sold at auction. This is because many of the properties have more owed against them than they’re worth. As a result, the bids at auctions are often far too low to even come close to covering what is owed on the properties. Lenders safeguard themselves against such eventualities by establishing the bidding high from the start. Thus, nobody will bid above what the lenders will bid and so, the lenders often take the properties back and simply list them for sale with a real estate broker. Such a property is called a REO (Real Estate Owned) and they are listed by the hundreds with brokerages that specialize in selling REOs. They are sold in, “As is” condition, just as they would have been if sold at auction and, they are often sold at a discount.
Since these properties are available through real estate brokers, you don’t need to have a specialized approach in order to buy them. You simply call your agent and have him show you the properties just as you normally would. Then you make an offer, begin negotiations and away you go.
Still, there are some differences you should be aware of. Unlike, a homeowner who is selling his home, banks are exempt from certain disclosure requirements. In fact, some banks simply will not make some disclosures even though they are required to do so. This is why you will need to do a little investigating of your own. For example: you should always have the property inspected by a professional, qualified home inspector and you should spend some time talking with neighbors about the neighborhood and the history of the house.
Negotiating with banks and many REO brokers can be difficult. You will almost never get to speak to the bank directly. You must deal with the REO broker. Unfortunately, they’re not much better. Quite often, they won’t return phone calls, almost never answer the phone, hide behind three levels of assistants and often adopt a, “My way or the highway” style of negotiating. In most cases, you’re not going to buy a REO property for fifty cents on the dollar, but you can get a very good deal if you simply take your time and do your homework. And don’t forget, a good real estate agent can help you a ton.
YourRealEstateDude.com
Now that home prices have been down for a while, many are the folks who call my office asking about the possibility of purchasing foreclosures. It seems that some seminar gurus have been making the rounds again and people are starting to get excited about investing in real estate.
That’s all fine and good except that buying foreclosures in today’s market is a bit different from what it might have been a decade ago. Today, many, if not most foreclosed upon properties are NOT sold at auction. This is because many of the properties have more owed against them than they’re worth. As a result, the bids at auctions are often far too low to even come close to covering what is owed on the properties. Lenders safeguard themselves against such eventualities by establishing the bidding high from the start. Thus, nobody will bid above what the lenders will bid and so, the lenders often take the properties back and simply list them for sale with a real estate broker. Such a property is called a REO (Real Estate Owned) and they are listed by the hundreds with brokerages that specialize in selling REOs. They are sold in, “As is” condition, just as they would have been if sold at auction and, they are often sold at a discount.
Since these properties are available through real estate brokers, you don’t need to have a specialized approach in order to buy them. You simply call your agent and have him show you the properties just as you normally would. Then you make an offer, begin negotiations and away you go.
Still, there are some differences you should be aware of. Unlike, a homeowner who is selling his home, banks are exempt from certain disclosure requirements. In fact, some banks simply will not make some disclosures even though they are required to do so. This is why you will need to do a little investigating of your own. For example: you should always have the property inspected by a professional, qualified home inspector and you should spend some time talking with neighbors about the neighborhood and the history of the house.
Negotiating with banks and many REO brokers can be difficult. You will almost never get to speak to the bank directly. You must deal with the REO broker. Unfortunately, they’re not much better. Quite often, they won’t return phone calls, almost never answer the phone, hide behind three levels of assistants and often adopt a, “My way or the highway” style of negotiating. In most cases, you’re not going to buy a REO property for fifty cents on the dollar, but you can get a very good deal if you simply take your time and do your homework. And don’t forget, a good real estate agent can help you a ton.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Truth or Consequences
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
When I was a kid, one of the game shows my parents most liked to watch was called, “Truth or Consequences.” As far as I know, that show has been gone for decades. But, what is still with us is the idea that lies can bring about terrible consequences.
On a daily basis, my staff and I work with homeowners who are in terrible fixes. In most cases they either purchased their homes using risky loans or were not entirely truthful when filling out their loan applications, or both. While it might be considered foolish, there is nothing illegal or immoral about taking out a risky loan. However, telling bald faced lies on a loan application is a crime. It’s called, “Fraud.” Some lies are as simple as indicating that the buyer is going to live in the home, when he is actually going to rent it. Others are more serious, such as the buyer telling the lender he makes more money than he actually does. Regardless of the severity of the lie, it is still a lie and can carry serious consequences when (and I say when, not if) the lender becomes aware of it.
The other notable area in which folks often get themselves into hot water is during the sales of their properties. I was reminded of this yesterday as I talked with a friend from church who had expressed a desire to purchase my car. As he marveled at the car’s excellent condition, I felt it prudent to also point out its faults. People can get excited about cars, particularly a convertible when summer is just around the bend. As evidence of this I could mention the fact that he gleefully put the top up and down several times. But, the moment I mentioned that the air conditioning needed to be charged and that the sound system was on the blink he began to take a much more serious look at the vehicle.
This is precisely the kind of behavioral shift that home sellers want to avoid. They know that home buying is an emotional process and they don’t want to chase a hot buyer away by telling him things about the house that might be bad. I’ve actually had sellers tell me, “It’s not a lie if I just don’t tell them.” Actually, it is a lie. It’s called, “a lie of omission.”
So, to illustrate how important the truth really is, it is an indisputable fact that the real estate and lending markets would not be in the pickle they are in if people had simply told the truth. Here are the facts, like them or not. Some lender’s lied when they neglected to tell their clients about the dangers of risky loans. Some buyers lied when they told lenders that their incomes were greater than they really were. Some sellers lied when they failed to mention that their homes were in worse shape than advertised. And yes, I hate to admit it, but some real estate people lied too. Even the politicians have gotten into the act by telling lies about what happened and who is responsible. Perhaps we all should have watched that old game show a little more often. As you may remember, it was called, “Truth or Consequences.”
YourRealEstateDude.com
When I was a kid, one of the game shows my parents most liked to watch was called, “Truth or Consequences.” As far as I know, that show has been gone for decades. But, what is still with us is the idea that lies can bring about terrible consequences.
On a daily basis, my staff and I work with homeowners who are in terrible fixes. In most cases they either purchased their homes using risky loans or were not entirely truthful when filling out their loan applications, or both. While it might be considered foolish, there is nothing illegal or immoral about taking out a risky loan. However, telling bald faced lies on a loan application is a crime. It’s called, “Fraud.” Some lies are as simple as indicating that the buyer is going to live in the home, when he is actually going to rent it. Others are more serious, such as the buyer telling the lender he makes more money than he actually does. Regardless of the severity of the lie, it is still a lie and can carry serious consequences when (and I say when, not if) the lender becomes aware of it.
The other notable area in which folks often get themselves into hot water is during the sales of their properties. I was reminded of this yesterday as I talked with a friend from church who had expressed a desire to purchase my car. As he marveled at the car’s excellent condition, I felt it prudent to also point out its faults. People can get excited about cars, particularly a convertible when summer is just around the bend. As evidence of this I could mention the fact that he gleefully put the top up and down several times. But, the moment I mentioned that the air conditioning needed to be charged and that the sound system was on the blink he began to take a much more serious look at the vehicle.
This is precisely the kind of behavioral shift that home sellers want to avoid. They know that home buying is an emotional process and they don’t want to chase a hot buyer away by telling him things about the house that might be bad. I’ve actually had sellers tell me, “It’s not a lie if I just don’t tell them.” Actually, it is a lie. It’s called, “a lie of omission.”
So, to illustrate how important the truth really is, it is an indisputable fact that the real estate and lending markets would not be in the pickle they are in if people had simply told the truth. Here are the facts, like them or not. Some lender’s lied when they neglected to tell their clients about the dangers of risky loans. Some buyers lied when they told lenders that their incomes were greater than they really were. Some sellers lied when they failed to mention that their homes were in worse shape than advertised. And yes, I hate to admit it, but some real estate people lied too. Even the politicians have gotten into the act by telling lies about what happened and who is responsible. Perhaps we all should have watched that old game show a little more often. As you may remember, it was called, “Truth or Consequences.”
Monday, April 14, 2008
A Solid Strategy And Great Tactics Are Vital to Your Success.
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
I am often asked the “Should I…” questions that are on most people’s lips the moment they run into a real estate professional. Lately the questions have come in the form of, “Should I buy now or wait until later.” In case you have been looking for a real estate agent to ask just that question, I thought I might answer it for you here.
It’s probably a safe bet to say that everyone knows the real estate market is experiencing a serious downturn. The press has been shouting the news of the sad and frightening aspects of the bursting “real estate bubble” for quite a while now. But, they haven’t talked about the good part. This is the part that honest to goodness investors capitalize on. Now, I’m not talking about the folks who call themselves investors because they jumped on the bandwagon when things were so good that it was almost impossible to fall off. I’m talking about real investors, folks who have taken the time to learn the ropes, develop winning strategies for success and tactics with which to implement those strategies along the way.
Real investors, like my grandfather when he was still around and like some of the clients we serve in my office, see great opportunity when everyone else is wringing their hands lamenting disaster. When the press is shouting, “Foreclosures are up, the end is near” investors are thinking, “Foreclosures are up, what a great opportunity!” The difference between the two is nothing more than understanding how things work and having a solid strategy and good, nuts and bolts tactics with which to succeed.
At this point, you’re probably thinking, “That’s all fine for you, Joel. But, how does that help me? I’m not an investor. I just want to buy a home.” The answer comes when you think about association. When I was a kid my mother, looking at the boys I knew from school, would say, “Don’t hang around those boys… they’ll get you into trouble.” By the time I was five years old I had learned that bad character corrupts good morals. Then my grandfather started to teach me one of the most valuable lessons I have ever learned in life. Over and over as I grew up he would tell me, “You don’t have to be smart, just hang around smart people.” And so, I learned that foolish people who do stupid things would bring me to harm and wise people who do smart things could help me succeed.
Following these simple lessons can help you succeed as well. In order to be successful as a buyer or seller in this market, you have to work with people who know what they’re doing. The way you find them, is to look for agents who work with REAL investors. Those agents know the ropes, because real investors won’t work with them if they don’t. Once you find one; be respectful of his time, don’t be afraid to pay him well and put on your thinking cap… you’re on your way to success.
YourRealEstateDude.com
I am often asked the “Should I…” questions that are on most people’s lips the moment they run into a real estate professional. Lately the questions have come in the form of, “Should I buy now or wait until later.” In case you have been looking for a real estate agent to ask just that question, I thought I might answer it for you here.
It’s probably a safe bet to say that everyone knows the real estate market is experiencing a serious downturn. The press has been shouting the news of the sad and frightening aspects of the bursting “real estate bubble” for quite a while now. But, they haven’t talked about the good part. This is the part that honest to goodness investors capitalize on. Now, I’m not talking about the folks who call themselves investors because they jumped on the bandwagon when things were so good that it was almost impossible to fall off. I’m talking about real investors, folks who have taken the time to learn the ropes, develop winning strategies for success and tactics with which to implement those strategies along the way.
Real investors, like my grandfather when he was still around and like some of the clients we serve in my office, see great opportunity when everyone else is wringing their hands lamenting disaster. When the press is shouting, “Foreclosures are up, the end is near” investors are thinking, “Foreclosures are up, what a great opportunity!” The difference between the two is nothing more than understanding how things work and having a solid strategy and good, nuts and bolts tactics with which to succeed.
At this point, you’re probably thinking, “That’s all fine for you, Joel. But, how does that help me? I’m not an investor. I just want to buy a home.” The answer comes when you think about association. When I was a kid my mother, looking at the boys I knew from school, would say, “Don’t hang around those boys… they’ll get you into trouble.” By the time I was five years old I had learned that bad character corrupts good morals. Then my grandfather started to teach me one of the most valuable lessons I have ever learned in life. Over and over as I grew up he would tell me, “You don’t have to be smart, just hang around smart people.” And so, I learned that foolish people who do stupid things would bring me to harm and wise people who do smart things could help me succeed.
Following these simple lessons can help you succeed as well. In order to be successful as a buyer or seller in this market, you have to work with people who know what they’re doing. The way you find them, is to look for agents who work with REAL investors. Those agents know the ropes, because real investors won’t work with them if they don’t. Once you find one; be respectful of his time, don’t be afraid to pay him well and put on your thinking cap… you’re on your way to success.
Monday, April 07, 2008
Is a Deed in Lieu of Foreclosure The Best Solution?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
With so many folks owing more on their homes than the properties are worth, many have elected to sell their houses in short-sales (sales in which the lender accepts less than what is owed). However, some people are opting for what is called a, “deed in lieu of foreclosure” (signing the property over to the bank to prevent a foreclosure from occurring). But, is this the best solution?
At a recent “broker’s breakfast” hosted by the San Diego Association of Realtors, real estate brokers and managers gathered from around San Diego County. The subject was foreclosures and the attendees heard attorneys representing both the California Association of Realtors and the San Diego Association discuss the problems and issues presented as a result of the large number of foreclosures flooding the market. Among the subjects discussed, was the practice of lenders offering a “Deed in Lieu” as an alternative solution to foreclosure or short-sale.
As a general rule, when homeowners are facing foreclosure they fear three major consequences: damage to their credit rating, the lender chasing them for the difference between what they owe and what their home is worth (the deficiency) and the possibility of having to pay taxes on that difference. The overriding reason why many homeowners elect to sell their homes in short-sales rather than allowing them to be foreclosed upon is in order to minimize the damage in all three of those areas. The question at hand was, “Does a deed in lieu of foreclosure accomplish the same goals?” Unfortunately, the answer is not simple.
The problems with accepting a deed in lieu of foreclosure as your chosen solution can be summed up in a four word quote by one of the attorney’s who was presenting at the morning breakfast. He said, “Deed in lieu? Careful!” While it may be tempting to just give the property back to the lender and wash your hands of the whole mess, the truth is that many lenders won’t let you do that so easily. According to this attorney, some lenders have adopted the practice of offering a deed in lieu of foreclosure while reserving their right to come after you for any deficiency after the home is eventually sold.
This does not mean that a deed in lieu is not the best solution. It simply illustrates the need to check with qualified professionals who have your best interest at heart before agreeing to anything. A short list of those professionals should include an experienced real estate broker, a qualified attorney and a Certified Public Accountant or tax attorney. Most importantly, do not sign anything without fully understanding what it says.
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With so many folks owing more on their homes than the properties are worth, many have elected to sell their houses in short-sales (sales in which the lender accepts less than what is owed). However, some people are opting for what is called a, “deed in lieu of foreclosure” (signing the property over to the bank to prevent a foreclosure from occurring). But, is this the best solution?
At a recent “broker’s breakfast” hosted by the San Diego Association of Realtors, real estate brokers and managers gathered from around San Diego County. The subject was foreclosures and the attendees heard attorneys representing both the California Association of Realtors and the San Diego Association discuss the problems and issues presented as a result of the large number of foreclosures flooding the market. Among the subjects discussed, was the practice of lenders offering a “Deed in Lieu” as an alternative solution to foreclosure or short-sale.
As a general rule, when homeowners are facing foreclosure they fear three major consequences: damage to their credit rating, the lender chasing them for the difference between what they owe and what their home is worth (the deficiency) and the possibility of having to pay taxes on that difference. The overriding reason why many homeowners elect to sell their homes in short-sales rather than allowing them to be foreclosed upon is in order to minimize the damage in all three of those areas. The question at hand was, “Does a deed in lieu of foreclosure accomplish the same goals?” Unfortunately, the answer is not simple.
The problems with accepting a deed in lieu of foreclosure as your chosen solution can be summed up in a four word quote by one of the attorney’s who was presenting at the morning breakfast. He said, “Deed in lieu? Careful!” While it may be tempting to just give the property back to the lender and wash your hands of the whole mess, the truth is that many lenders won’t let you do that so easily. According to this attorney, some lenders have adopted the practice of offering a deed in lieu of foreclosure while reserving their right to come after you for any deficiency after the home is eventually sold.
This does not mean that a deed in lieu is not the best solution. It simply illustrates the need to check with qualified professionals who have your best interest at heart before agreeing to anything. A short list of those professionals should include an experienced real estate broker, a qualified attorney and a Certified Public Accountant or tax attorney. Most importantly, do not sign anything without fully understanding what it says.
Monday, March 24, 2008
Are home loan programs changing?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
Although we have relatively constant weather in San Diego County, that is not the case in many other parts of the country where there is an old saying, “If you don’t like the weather, wait five minutes.” Where my younger sister lives in Florida, this is most certainly true. One minute it’s raining and five minutes later there isn’t a cloud in the sky.
While you might think it far-fetched to use a weather analogy to describe the current home lending market, given our current market dynamics, we could easily adopt a similar saying such as, “If you don’t like the current loan market, wait five minutes.”
Just last Wednesday, my entire staff was present at a meeting presented by an expert in government loans such as those offered by VA, FHA and CalHFA. It was quite an eye-opener for an old real estate dude like me. Government loans have been out of the picture in San Diego County for more than a decade simply because there were better options to choose from. The government loans were available during that time. They just weren’t as attractive as the many non-government programs that were around. However, with the recent tightening of the non-government lending market, “Govi” loans have begun to shine a little brighter.
As the meeting progressed you could have read the shock on everyone’s faces as we discovered that 100% financing was still available using government loans such as CalHFA. For all practical purposes, 100% loans had become a thing of the past among non-government lenders. As a result, we couldn’t get over the fact that they were still possible using government loans. Well… that was on Wednesday. By Saturday CalHFA had announced that the rules had changed. “If you don’t like the weather…”
While many people like to watch the stock market, it is the bond market which has the most immediate effect upon home loan interest rates. Every day my email is jammed with hundreds of messages about the lending market in general: at least six or seven of which are short messages about the bond market which read like this, “The bond market is up by ___ basis points”, followed later in the day by, “The bond market is currently down by ____ basis points”, and so on. Each one of these six or seven daily shifts in the market effects the mortgage rates for that day. What a roller coaster. “You say you don’t like the weather? Just wait.”
So, with loan programs and interest rates that are moving targets at best, how is a borrower supposed to count on anything? It isn’t easy. One thing’s for sure, borrowers who chose to work with knowledgeable, experienced loan officers who have their ears to the ground and their noses to the grindstone are far better off. Now is not the time to be working with amateurs.
YourRealEstateDude.com
Although we have relatively constant weather in San Diego County, that is not the case in many other parts of the country where there is an old saying, “If you don’t like the weather, wait five minutes.” Where my younger sister lives in Florida, this is most certainly true. One minute it’s raining and five minutes later there isn’t a cloud in the sky.
While you might think it far-fetched to use a weather analogy to describe the current home lending market, given our current market dynamics, we could easily adopt a similar saying such as, “If you don’t like the current loan market, wait five minutes.”
Just last Wednesday, my entire staff was present at a meeting presented by an expert in government loans such as those offered by VA, FHA and CalHFA. It was quite an eye-opener for an old real estate dude like me. Government loans have been out of the picture in San Diego County for more than a decade simply because there were better options to choose from. The government loans were available during that time. They just weren’t as attractive as the many non-government programs that were around. However, with the recent tightening of the non-government lending market, “Govi” loans have begun to shine a little brighter.
As the meeting progressed you could have read the shock on everyone’s faces as we discovered that 100% financing was still available using government loans such as CalHFA. For all practical purposes, 100% loans had become a thing of the past among non-government lenders. As a result, we couldn’t get over the fact that they were still possible using government loans. Well… that was on Wednesday. By Saturday CalHFA had announced that the rules had changed. “If you don’t like the weather…”
While many people like to watch the stock market, it is the bond market which has the most immediate effect upon home loan interest rates. Every day my email is jammed with hundreds of messages about the lending market in general: at least six or seven of which are short messages about the bond market which read like this, “The bond market is up by ___ basis points”, followed later in the day by, “The bond market is currently down by ____ basis points”, and so on. Each one of these six or seven daily shifts in the market effects the mortgage rates for that day. What a roller coaster. “You say you don’t like the weather? Just wait.”
So, with loan programs and interest rates that are moving targets at best, how is a borrower supposed to count on anything? It isn’t easy. One thing’s for sure, borrowers who chose to work with knowledgeable, experienced loan officers who have their ears to the ground and their noses to the grindstone are far better off. Now is not the time to be working with amateurs.
Whom does your real estate agent represent?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
With the rapid expansion of the foreclosure and pre-foreclosure markets, many real estate professionals have forgotten whom they represent, particularly when the agent represents a seller who is in the throws of a foreclosure. While that agent would most likely have been hired by the seller, he or she would also be required to deal with the lender. The lender would have a financial interest in the home and could stand to lose money if the home was sold for less than what was owed on it. It has been my experience that many agents in this situation cannot seem to figure out whether they represent the seller or the lender. Indeed, I have found that some brokerage firms have no more clue as to whom they represent in these cases.
Just recently, I wrote an offer for a client who wanted to purchase a property which was in pre-foreclosure. The seller had missed some payments. But, the lender had not yet begun the full process of foreclosing on the property. My client was a sophisticated buyer and understood the process of buying such properties. I called the seller’s agent and explained the situation, outlined my client’s intended approach and asked if the agent and the seller were willing to move forward. The agent got back to me later that same day and told me that he had explained the situation to his client and that the client wanted to move forward with the deal. The next day my client tendered an offer. As previously agreed, the offer was low, but only for the purpose of beginning the negotiation with the lender.
Four days went by without a call from the seller’s agent acknowledging that he had received the offer. So, I called him to follow up. He told me that he had not presented the offer and did not intent to. I asked why. He said he did not feel that he was doing what was right by the lender. I asked him whom he represented. With an incredulous tone he replied, “The seller.” I answered, “Then why are you worried about the lender? Shouldn’t you be more concerned with getting your client out from under that house?” He scoffed at me, and ended the conversation. My client did not buy the house. In fact, he has elected to wait until it goes into foreclosure and buy it directly from the lender. In the meantime, it’s still on the market, unsold. The lender has begun the foreclosure process and the seller is in more hot water than ever before. This seller’s agent did not understand whom he represented. Does yours? My advice is, make sure your agent is looking after you before you hire him. Otherwise, you could end up in the same boat as the gentleman in this story.
YourRealEstateDude.com
With the rapid expansion of the foreclosure and pre-foreclosure markets, many real estate professionals have forgotten whom they represent, particularly when the agent represents a seller who is in the throws of a foreclosure. While that agent would most likely have been hired by the seller, he or she would also be required to deal with the lender. The lender would have a financial interest in the home and could stand to lose money if the home was sold for less than what was owed on it. It has been my experience that many agents in this situation cannot seem to figure out whether they represent the seller or the lender. Indeed, I have found that some brokerage firms have no more clue as to whom they represent in these cases.
Just recently, I wrote an offer for a client who wanted to purchase a property which was in pre-foreclosure. The seller had missed some payments. But, the lender had not yet begun the full process of foreclosing on the property. My client was a sophisticated buyer and understood the process of buying such properties. I called the seller’s agent and explained the situation, outlined my client’s intended approach and asked if the agent and the seller were willing to move forward. The agent got back to me later that same day and told me that he had explained the situation to his client and that the client wanted to move forward with the deal. The next day my client tendered an offer. As previously agreed, the offer was low, but only for the purpose of beginning the negotiation with the lender.
Four days went by without a call from the seller’s agent acknowledging that he had received the offer. So, I called him to follow up. He told me that he had not presented the offer and did not intent to. I asked why. He said he did not feel that he was doing what was right by the lender. I asked him whom he represented. With an incredulous tone he replied, “The seller.” I answered, “Then why are you worried about the lender? Shouldn’t you be more concerned with getting your client out from under that house?” He scoffed at me, and ended the conversation. My client did not buy the house. In fact, he has elected to wait until it goes into foreclosure and buy it directly from the lender. In the meantime, it’s still on the market, unsold. The lender has begun the foreclosure process and the seller is in more hot water than ever before. This seller’s agent did not understand whom he represented. Does yours? My advice is, make sure your agent is looking after you before you hire him. Otherwise, you could end up in the same boat as the gentleman in this story.
Saturday, March 01, 2008
Is now a good time to buy?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
This past Friday I had lunch with an investor friend of mine who regularly buys distressed properties. We were having a meeting to discuss the work my agents are doing in finding such properties so that his investment group can buy them, thereby helping our clients get out of there financial binds. During our conversation some interesting subjects came up. I thought you might find one of them interesting.
The investor was telling me about some of the networking groups he had been part of over the years. He was helping me identify some potential business opportunities. Right in the middle of a sentence he paused, looked at me with a puzzled expression on his face and said, “I can’t believe how much some of these groups have shrunk in the last couple of years. All those people who were so excited about buying and selling a few years ago are gone.” I asked, “What about you?” He said, “I’m still in. I’m glad their gone. It makes things easier for me.”
When I was a boy my grandfather, a long time real estate investor and broker, asked me what I thought would happen if my grandmother’s favorite department store had a sale. I replied, “She’d be there all day.” Then he asked me what I thought would happen if that same store raised its prices by half. I said, “She’d never go.” With a giant smile upon his face, he exclaimed, “Exactly! And yet, people do precisely the opposite when it comes to real estate. Remember that, Joel. That little fact about human nature will serve you well some day.”
My investor friend was expressing amazement at witnessing the same phenomenon that my grandfather had taught me about forty years earlier. When prices go up, people scratch and fight for the chance to buy real estate. When prices go down, they all sit back, holding tightly to their wallets and wait for prices to start going up again so they will feel safe enough to buy. If you take a moment to apply that way of thinking to the supermarket or department store as my grandfather did, you will quickly recognize the insanity of that approach.
Whenever I point this out, many people say, “But, you can’t find any deals in this market!” You should know that I’ve been hearing that same statement for my entire career. Indeed, I heard it a number of times from those who were watching my grandfather make money in troubled times forty years ago, while at the same time denying that it was possible for him to do so. Even my investor friend said it at lunch the other day. But, unlike many others he didn’t forget the most important part of the statement. He said, “You can’t find any deals in this market, unless you know how.”
This brings me back to another lesson my grandfather drilled into my head from the time I was six years old. Over and over he would remind me, “Joel, you don’t have to be smart. Just hang around smart people.” So, if people are telling you that finding a deal in today’s real estate market can’t be done, you are hanging around the wrong people. I encourage you to take steps toward meeting people who know where the deals can be found and how to find them. Because, the fact is that now is the time to buy!
YourRealEstateDude.com
This past Friday I had lunch with an investor friend of mine who regularly buys distressed properties. We were having a meeting to discuss the work my agents are doing in finding such properties so that his investment group can buy them, thereby helping our clients get out of there financial binds. During our conversation some interesting subjects came up. I thought you might find one of them interesting.
The investor was telling me about some of the networking groups he had been part of over the years. He was helping me identify some potential business opportunities. Right in the middle of a sentence he paused, looked at me with a puzzled expression on his face and said, “I can’t believe how much some of these groups have shrunk in the last couple of years. All those people who were so excited about buying and selling a few years ago are gone.” I asked, “What about you?” He said, “I’m still in. I’m glad their gone. It makes things easier for me.”
When I was a boy my grandfather, a long time real estate investor and broker, asked me what I thought would happen if my grandmother’s favorite department store had a sale. I replied, “She’d be there all day.” Then he asked me what I thought would happen if that same store raised its prices by half. I said, “She’d never go.” With a giant smile upon his face, he exclaimed, “Exactly! And yet, people do precisely the opposite when it comes to real estate. Remember that, Joel. That little fact about human nature will serve you well some day.”
My investor friend was expressing amazement at witnessing the same phenomenon that my grandfather had taught me about forty years earlier. When prices go up, people scratch and fight for the chance to buy real estate. When prices go down, they all sit back, holding tightly to their wallets and wait for prices to start going up again so they will feel safe enough to buy. If you take a moment to apply that way of thinking to the supermarket or department store as my grandfather did, you will quickly recognize the insanity of that approach.
Whenever I point this out, many people say, “But, you can’t find any deals in this market!” You should know that I’ve been hearing that same statement for my entire career. Indeed, I heard it a number of times from those who were watching my grandfather make money in troubled times forty years ago, while at the same time denying that it was possible for him to do so. Even my investor friend said it at lunch the other day. But, unlike many others he didn’t forget the most important part of the statement. He said, “You can’t find any deals in this market, unless you know how.”
This brings me back to another lesson my grandfather drilled into my head from the time I was six years old. Over and over he would remind me, “Joel, you don’t have to be smart. Just hang around smart people.” So, if people are telling you that finding a deal in today’s real estate market can’t be done, you are hanging around the wrong people. I encourage you to take steps toward meeting people who know where the deals can be found and how to find them. Because, the fact is that now is the time to buy!
Thursday, February 28, 2008
When Will The Market Get Better?
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
At least three or for times a week someone will take me aside and ask me, “When will the market get better?” Of course I always find myself asking, “What do you mean by better?” and the answer is almost always equivalent to, “Back the way it was when things were good.” “Good” is the buzz word for the time a few years ago when prices were sky rocking upward and houses were selling so fast that real estate professionals could hardly hang up the “For Sale” signs before the properties were sold. Unfortunately, these good times were not normal and, as anyone who reads the paper can tell you, the prognosticators predict that such a market is not likely to return any time soon.
This very fact has brought about a burning in the bellies of many homeowners which is stoked by worry over declining home values and when, or even if those values will ever climb back to their previous highs. Real estate values, having experienced an unbelievably rapid increase over a short period of years, have dipped dramatically as the market has adjusted to that unprecedented, unrealistic and meteoric rise. As news persists of ever declining prices with no end in sight, more and more homeowners are starting to sweat.
Like any other market, real estate ebbs and flows. The tide comes in and the tide goes out. History has proven that it never comes in without later going out and it never goes out with later coming back in. The tide came in and stayed in for quite a while. Many people enjoyed swimming in the warm water and some, overcome by the euphoria of the times, foolishly braved those good days without sunscreen. Somehow, the tide staying in as long as it did protected them from getting burned. But once the tide went out, those who could no longer stay in the water started getting pretty hot and many have gotten themselves a might bad burn. It will take quite a long time for the pain caused by the changing tide to pass. But, pass it will and the tide will come in again. However, in the meantime this tide has left thousands of foreclosures and soon to be foreclosures behind on the sand.
When a market is flooded with distressed properties such as foreclosures, the owners of those properties sell them at a discount in order to move them quickly and thereby cut their losses. The result is that the values of surrounding properties which are not distressed are driven down as well. It will take many months for all those properties to be foreclosed upon and resold. In that time, banks will price them very low and continue to reduce the asking prices in order to get them sold fast. That will cause home values to continue their decline as this bloated inventory of distressed properties are reintroduced to the market.
So, how long will it take? Truthfully, no one really knows for sure. Most predictions I have heard have estimated that our current market will stick around for another year or two and that it may take eight to ten years until prices reach their previous highs. The only thing I know for certain is what anyone who has ever watched the tide at the sea shore can tell you. When the tide stays in a long time, it tends to stay out a long time as well. But, give it time. It will be back!
YourRealEstateDude.com
At least three or for times a week someone will take me aside and ask me, “When will the market get better?” Of course I always find myself asking, “What do you mean by better?” and the answer is almost always equivalent to, “Back the way it was when things were good.” “Good” is the buzz word for the time a few years ago when prices were sky rocking upward and houses were selling so fast that real estate professionals could hardly hang up the “For Sale” signs before the properties were sold. Unfortunately, these good times were not normal and, as anyone who reads the paper can tell you, the prognosticators predict that such a market is not likely to return any time soon.
This very fact has brought about a burning in the bellies of many homeowners which is stoked by worry over declining home values and when, or even if those values will ever climb back to their previous highs. Real estate values, having experienced an unbelievably rapid increase over a short period of years, have dipped dramatically as the market has adjusted to that unprecedented, unrealistic and meteoric rise. As news persists of ever declining prices with no end in sight, more and more homeowners are starting to sweat.
Like any other market, real estate ebbs and flows. The tide comes in and the tide goes out. History has proven that it never comes in without later going out and it never goes out with later coming back in. The tide came in and stayed in for quite a while. Many people enjoyed swimming in the warm water and some, overcome by the euphoria of the times, foolishly braved those good days without sunscreen. Somehow, the tide staying in as long as it did protected them from getting burned. But once the tide went out, those who could no longer stay in the water started getting pretty hot and many have gotten themselves a might bad burn. It will take quite a long time for the pain caused by the changing tide to pass. But, pass it will and the tide will come in again. However, in the meantime this tide has left thousands of foreclosures and soon to be foreclosures behind on the sand.
When a market is flooded with distressed properties such as foreclosures, the owners of those properties sell them at a discount in order to move them quickly and thereby cut their losses. The result is that the values of surrounding properties which are not distressed are driven down as well. It will take many months for all those properties to be foreclosed upon and resold. In that time, banks will price them very low and continue to reduce the asking prices in order to get them sold fast. That will cause home values to continue their decline as this bloated inventory of distressed properties are reintroduced to the market.
So, how long will it take? Truthfully, no one really knows for sure. Most predictions I have heard have estimated that our current market will stick around for another year or two and that it may take eight to ten years until prices reach their previous highs. The only thing I know for certain is what anyone who has ever watched the tide at the sea shore can tell you. When the tide stays in a long time, it tends to stay out a long time as well. But, give it time. It will be back!
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
The Era of Assigned Responsibility
By Joel Persinger
YourRealEstateDude.com
Like most of us, I never thought I would end up sounding like my parents or grandparents when I grew up. Well… as the old saying goes, “Never say never.” My grandparents were born at the turn of the last century. When I was a young boy they would subject me to long lectures about how much different life was during their time and how much people in my time seemed to have lost their moral and ethical compasses. “Be careful not to grow up like that, Joel,” my grandmother would say.
Admittedly, that was a long time ago and things were quite different then. No one in my family ever locked their cars or even bothered to take the keys out of the ignition. My Aunt Peggy, who was born in 1888 in Indian Territory Oklahoma, didn’t even own a key to her house. Even if she did, it wouldn’t have made a difference since none of the locks worked. Like most of the men of that time, my Great Grandpa Jim, the local barber for decades, carried a revolver everywhere he went. Those old folks, God bless them every one, had this crazy notion that people were responsible for taking care of themselves as well as for their own choices and actions. When I made good choices, I got the benefit. But, when I made poor ones, I was taught to stand up like a man, admit that I had messed up and “take my lumps.” As a result, I grew up understanding all too well that this is a world which functions on the principle of natural consequences.
Human beings learn best by failure. It is the pain of falling off the bicycle which motivates us to learn how to stay on it. It is the shock of discovering gravity the hard way following our first baby steps which motivates us to keep putting those shaky little feet in front of us in an attempt to avoid hitting the floor again. This is why my grandfather and mentor always told me, “You win or you learn.”
When we refuse to take responsibility for our actions and failures, we deprive ourselves of the opportunity to learn. This is why so many people today seem to repeat the same mistakes. Instead of owning up to their failures and learning the lessons that they teach, it has become all too common for today’s “learners” to shift the blame to others and thereby assign their responsibility to someone else.
All this past week I have met with clients who have lamented the painful position in which they have found themselves after having made poor decisions in the financing of their homes. Most of them are about to lose their houses and are beyond the help that might have been available had they acted sooner. In each and every case, they told me how wronged they had been by the lender or real estate agent with whom they had worked to purchase or refinance their property. None of them took any responsibility upon themselves.
I am not here to excuse the predatory practices of unethical and unscrupulous loan officers and real estate agents. Thousands of folks have been badly hurt by such people. But, that does not release us as individuals from the responsibility we each bear for our own welfare. Each homeowner who has been hurt chose the loan program they used. It’s their signatures on the bottom lines. They are the ones who elected to buy more house than they knew they could afford at the time. Let us not forget our own involvement in selecting the unpleasant paths we are on.
It’s a hard thing to hear if you are in that position and I will probably get myself into trouble for saying it. But, if we refuse to take responsibility for our actions, then we cannot and will not learn from our mistakes. As someone once said, “those who refuse to learn from history are destined to repeat it.” So, here’s a little of the hard medicine my Grandpa Charlie gave me as a kid. “You win or you learn. There is no losing. You only lose when you refuse to learn from your mistakes.”
YourRealEstateDude.com
Like most of us, I never thought I would end up sounding like my parents or grandparents when I grew up. Well… as the old saying goes, “Never say never.” My grandparents were born at the turn of the last century. When I was a young boy they would subject me to long lectures about how much different life was during their time and how much people in my time seemed to have lost their moral and ethical compasses. “Be careful not to grow up like that, Joel,” my grandmother would say.
Admittedly, that was a long time ago and things were quite different then. No one in my family ever locked their cars or even bothered to take the keys out of the ignition. My Aunt Peggy, who was born in 1888 in Indian Territory Oklahoma, didn’t even own a key to her house. Even if she did, it wouldn’t have made a difference since none of the locks worked. Like most of the men of that time, my Great Grandpa Jim, the local barber for decades, carried a revolver everywhere he went. Those old folks, God bless them every one, had this crazy notion that people were responsible for taking care of themselves as well as for their own choices and actions. When I made good choices, I got the benefit. But, when I made poor ones, I was taught to stand up like a man, admit that I had messed up and “take my lumps.” As a result, I grew up understanding all too well that this is a world which functions on the principle of natural consequences.
Human beings learn best by failure. It is the pain of falling off the bicycle which motivates us to learn how to stay on it. It is the shock of discovering gravity the hard way following our first baby steps which motivates us to keep putting those shaky little feet in front of us in an attempt to avoid hitting the floor again. This is why my grandfather and mentor always told me, “You win or you learn.”
When we refuse to take responsibility for our actions and failures, we deprive ourselves of the opportunity to learn. This is why so many people today seem to repeat the same mistakes. Instead of owning up to their failures and learning the lessons that they teach, it has become all too common for today’s “learners” to shift the blame to others and thereby assign their responsibility to someone else.
All this past week I have met with clients who have lamented the painful position in which they have found themselves after having made poor decisions in the financing of their homes. Most of them are about to lose their houses and are beyond the help that might have been available had they acted sooner. In each and every case, they told me how wronged they had been by the lender or real estate agent with whom they had worked to purchase or refinance their property. None of them took any responsibility upon themselves.
I am not here to excuse the predatory practices of unethical and unscrupulous loan officers and real estate agents. Thousands of folks have been badly hurt by such people. But, that does not release us as individuals from the responsibility we each bear for our own welfare. Each homeowner who has been hurt chose the loan program they used. It’s their signatures on the bottom lines. They are the ones who elected to buy more house than they knew they could afford at the time. Let us not forget our own involvement in selecting the unpleasant paths we are on.
It’s a hard thing to hear if you are in that position and I will probably get myself into trouble for saying it. But, if we refuse to take responsibility for our actions, then we cannot and will not learn from our mistakes. As someone once said, “those who refuse to learn from history are destined to repeat it.” So, here’s a little of the hard medicine my Grandpa Charlie gave me as a kid. “You win or you learn. There is no losing. You only lose when you refuse to learn from your mistakes.”
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